Our life plans are little more than stories that we can ruthlessly clutch regardless of the contours of the moment or that we can adjust as conditions warrant. Attachment to our fabricated narratives pushes us into a land of fantasy characterized by wishful thinking, grief over what isn’t, and despising the truth of the present.Continue reading

Community doesn’t look like church.

Every year, I take an annual trip with my friends from college, my very conservative, religious college. Since all of us went there and most still ascribe to those religious beliefs of a faithful three times a week church-goer, we went to church. The church we go to when we are on vacation is the same churchContinue reading “Community doesn’t look like church.”

Spirituality exists wherever we struggle with the issue of how our lives fit into the greater cosmic scheme of things. This is true even when our questions never give way to specific answers or give rise to specific practices such as prayer or mediation. We encounter spiritual issues every time we wonder where the universeContinue reading

Lessons on moving out of hatred, from someone who’s still stuck there.

Hatred is consuming and awful; and unfortunately, I’m in the bogs of it. Well, not really the bogs, but more the outer rim. As much as I despise the word and the meaning, I really do hate someone. I am consumed with how much I dislike him, everything from what he says, to the way he speaks, andContinue reading “Lessons on moving out of hatred, from someone who’s still stuck there.”

You probably won’t agree with me, but that’s okay.

Don Miller recently posted a blog about whether God has a plan or not for you. This is one of those “blogs in response to another blog” things, so I apologize for that. The article is short, so go read it. The gist of it is that God does not map our lives, and generally people who ascribe toContinue reading “You probably won’t agree with me, but that’s okay.”